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Husband Appearance Do not care about appearance Husband should at least try to stay healthy Husband should dress in a mature and clean style Husband should maintain a fashionable wardrobe Husband must prioritize maintaining an attractive physique Husband must always have impeccable grooming Prefer not to say

Wife Appearance Do not care about appearance Wife should at least try to be healthy Wife should dress in a clean and mature fashion Wife should maintain a fashionable wardrobe Wife must prioritize maintaining a good figure and should try to look good every day Wife must have impeccable grooming every day Prefer not to say

Money Provisioning Husband is 100% provider for family wife need not work Husband will be primary breadwinner wife also contributes Husband and wife will each provide equally Wife will be primary breadwinner husband also contributes Wife will be 100% provider for family husband need not work Prefer not to say

Money Management Husband will manage finances Husband will be primarily responsible but wife will control some things Budgets and financial decisions will be handled jointly Wife will be primarily responsible but husband will control some things Wife will manage finances Prefer not to say

Debt Husband and wife should enter marriage debt free Husband and wife will individually manage their own debts Husband and wife work together to resolve combined debts Wife will take ownership of debt from husband Husband will take ownership of debt from wife Prefer not to answer / Can discuss debt issues later

Lifestyle House / Apartment (owned) Cash Allowance Maid Service Regular Vacations Regular Dining Out Gourmet Grocery Budget Car Prefer not to say

Cleaning Wife will be solely responsible for cleaning. Wife will handle most cleaning tasks with husband handling some specific duties. Cleaning and household chores will be split equitably between husband and wife. Husband will handle majority of cleaning duties with wife handling some specific duties Husband will be responsible for all cleaning. Wife may help at her discretion. Most home cleaning tasks will be handled by a 3rd party.

Cooking Wife will be responsible for cooking Wife will handle most cooking with occasional help from husband Husband and wife will equally share cooking duties Husband will handle most cooking with occasional help from wife Husband will be responsible for cooking Most food preparation will be handled by 3rd parties

Wife Cooking Ability None Basic cooking Moderate ability Very skilled Gourmet chef

Husband Cooking Ability None Basic cooking Moderate ability Very skilled Gourmet Chef

Relationship Dynamic Patriarchy: Husband is leader of the home and wife submits to his authority Old-fashioned: Husband has final say on most things but wife need not always defer to him Gender Roles: Husband and wife have different spheres of authority Egalitarian: Husband and wife equitably share authority and always seek consensus Happy Wife: Husband generally defers to wife except in specified areas Matriarchy: Wife is leader of household Hippies: No rules, everyone just do whatever Negotiated: No expectations, lets work it out as we go Prefer not to say

Child Rearing Will not have children Father sets the rules Mother sets the rules Follow religious tradition Conventional approach jointly administered Education is top priority - should consider various supplemental programs and classes Try to use minimal discipline and let kids be free Other, See Additional Contract Details

Parental Care Wife will have her parents live in home together Husband will have his parents live in home together Wife will need to care for her parents Husband will need to care for his parents Neither husband nor wife have any parental care responsibilities relevant to the marriage Prefer not to say

Childcare Responsibility Wife will be responsible for vast majority of childcare Wife will handle most childcare with husband also regularly helping Husband and wife will equitably split childcare responsibilities Husband will be responsible for most childcare tasks with wife also regularly helping Husband will handle vast majority of childcare Majority of childcare will be handled by third parties - au pair, nanny, boarding school, etc

3rd Party Childcare None Occasional babysitter / support from family Regular nanny or babysitter support Live-in nanny / aupair

Household Religion Husband will lead a pious household Wife will lead a pious household Husband and wife will jointly manage religious traditions Husband and wife will separately manage their own religious priorities Secular household

Physical Intimacy Prefer not to say Platonic - handholding, hugs, etc Traditional marital relations Husband will set boundaries Wife will set boundaries Husband and wife will figure it out together

Emotional Intimacy Soulmates: No secrets Deep Bond: We put each other first Teammates: We work and have fun together All Business: We fulfill our agreed upon roles Other Prefer not to say

Marriage Sex Life Prefer not to say Sexless Monthly Weekly Every few days Daily Whenever the husband wants it Whenever the wife wants it Whenever we both are in the mood Lets figure it out as we go

Infidelity Divorce immediately, no exceptions Should be avoided. May or may not lead to divorce. Should be avoided but should not lead to divorce. Fine for husband so long as he is discreet Fine for wife so long as she is discreet No expectation of fidelity for both husband and wife Other, see Additional Contract Details Prefer not to say

Divorce Never. Till death do us part. Possible in accordance with religious doctrine Possible in case of serious physical abuse Possible in case of infidelity Possible in case of breach of marriage agreement Possible in case of one partner not feeling happy Prefer not to say

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Husband Assets Cash Savings Stock House or Apartment - owned House or Apartment - rented Car Bride price Other, See Additional Contract Details

Wife Assets Cash Savings Stock House or Apartment - owned House or Apartment - rented Car Dowry Other, See Additional Contract Details

Marriage Location Wife will move to be with husband Husband will move to be with wife Husband and wife will decide together Prefer not to say

Lifestyle House / Apartment (owned) Cash Allowance Maid Service Regular Vacations Regular Dining Out Gourmet Grocery Budget Car Prefer not to say

Wife Cooking Ability None Basic cooking Moderate ability Very skilled Gourmet chef

Husband Cooking Ability None Basic cooking Moderate ability Very skilled Gourmet Chef

Desired Children 0 1 2 3 4 5 More than 5

When to have kids Right away Within the next year Within the next few years At least 5 years from now or even longer Up to God Never

3rd Party Childcare None Occasional babysitter / support from family Regular nanny or babysitter support Live-in nanny / aupair

Husband Sexual History Does not matter Virgin Very little A few partners Several partners Prefer not to say

Wife Sexual History Does not matter Virgin Very little A few partners Several partners Prefer not to say

Physical Intimacy Prefer not to say Platonic - handholding, hugs, etc Traditional marital relations Husband will set boundaries Wife will set boundaries Husband and wife will figure it out together

Emotional Intimacy Soulmates: No secrets Deep Bond: We put each other first Teammates: We work and have fun together All Business: We fulfill our agreed upon roles Other Prefer not to say

Marriage Sex Life Prefer not to say Sexless Monthly Weekly Every few days Daily Whenever the husband wants it Whenever the wife wants it Whenever we both are in the mood Lets figure it out as we go

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